[I can’t with these crazy moms]
Feb. 9th, 2023 07:05 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
roaming_kate23Medical Kidnap has a new “the gubmint took my baby away and something happened to her”. In this case the baby(who had heart issues) died whilst in foster care.
So a little back story is entirely necessary here:
Crazy Mom found out her daughter had a heart defect At the time she had a 4 month old.Yeah.Her other 2 kids at the time were 12 and 9 years old).Was told that terminating the baby would be the best way to handle it.But. She didn’t. Had the baby and prepared herself to take care of a child with special needs. She herself had issues(post partum cardiomyopathy) after her birth.
A few months in, though a concerned friend called CPS because they were concerned about certain things(the mom is a single mom to 4 kids two of whom are under the age of 2 and one of whom has complicated medical issues.)
In the comments section someone said that they hoped the “family friend” is reminded every day of the damage she did to the family.
(This is a common thing:faux outrage at something that is ridiculous .It’s fairly common in cases like this. With S.’s case that was certainly true.But S. Is alive and is back with Crazy Mom and her siblings.
Mom:How dare CPS come in when I’m doing all I can for my daughter?
(Here’s the thing:someone though you weren’t.)
Also Mom:If CPS hadn’t taken her from me she would still be alive.
(Your daughter had medical issues.She was never going to have a long life even if she was able to have corrective surgery.)
The state had medical rights to the baby
(Smart.)
Crazy mom goes after the low hanging fruit,IOW the foster parents(which is very common in cases like this.) They(foster parents) put lotions on the baby that made her break out .
The accusations were too absurd not to be ignored.
(And you KNOW the people at the Social Services offices were like “WTF” at this.)
So a little back story is entirely necessary here:
Crazy Mom found out her daughter had a heart defect At the time she had a 4 month old.Yeah.Her other 2 kids at the time were 12 and 9 years old).Was told that terminating the baby would be the best way to handle it.But. She didn’t. Had the baby and prepared herself to take care of a child with special needs. She herself had issues(post partum cardiomyopathy) after her birth.
A few months in, though a concerned friend called CPS because they were concerned about certain things(the mom is a single mom to 4 kids two of whom are under the age of 2 and one of whom has complicated medical issues.)
In the comments section someone said that they hoped the “family friend” is reminded every day of the damage she did to the family.
(This is a common thing:faux outrage at something that is ridiculous .It’s fairly common in cases like this. With S.’s case that was certainly true.But S. Is alive and is back with Crazy Mom and her siblings.
Mom:How dare CPS come in when I’m doing all I can for my daughter?
(Here’s the thing:someone though you weren’t.)
Also Mom:If CPS hadn’t taken her from me she would still be alive.
(Your daughter had medical issues.She was never going to have a long life even if she was able to have corrective surgery.)
The state had medical rights to the baby
(Smart.)
Crazy mom goes after the low hanging fruit,IOW the foster parents(which is very common in cases like this.) They(foster parents) put lotions on the baby that made her break out .
The accusations were too absurd not to be ignored.
(And you KNOW the people at the Social Services offices were like “WTF” at this.)
