[As an adopted person,this pisses me off.]
Monday, 25 September 2023 07:34![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
roaming_kate23Every foster or adopted child is wanted by someone.
(You don’t know what people’s situations are,)
Adoption is trafficking.
There are any amount of reasons that a child is given up for adoption.)
Foster care kids are worse off than children in troubled homes.
(As someone who was adopted I can’t thank my parents enough for adopting them,WRT to being in “troubled homes..no they are not.)
Foster or adoptive parents you have been told your child was “unwanted”.
Not necessarily unwanted.I know vaguely my story and that my birth mother already had 2 kids and there were circumstances that led to her giving me up for adoption. As I said earlier there are many reasons that a baby is given up for adoption.
Then there is the comment “The baby should be given to family”.
(Can’t always happen and sometimes that is worse.)
Birth family is where kids belong.
(The stories I have followed where families who have had their kids taken away from them go on and on about how the evil gubmint took their kids away because they did something CPS thought was sus to them, And in one case the kids were given back to the parents and I said that we have not heard the last of them and sure enough they got their kids back.
The second case was so sketch and eventually the parents DID get their kid back but their story was all over the place.Since they got their kid back they have mostly kept their moth shut but if someone asks about about it it sets them off.
Break up happy and loving homes.
(In both of the cases that I mentioned their being happy and loving is debatable,)
Families traumatised and never want to go to a hospital again.
(Again in both of the cases that I mentioned the parents were anti-establishment, the first parents very much so to the point that they had their twins(which they did not even know that they were having because they did not go to the doctor the whole time they were pregnant ) at home without a doctor or a nurse present, Concerned neighbours and relatives reported them .In the comments sections on every article that was pro the family(like on Medical Kidnap as an example) they would call the concerned family members “traitors”.
(You don’t know what people’s situations are,)
Adoption is trafficking.
There are any amount of reasons that a child is given up for adoption.)
Foster care kids are worse off than children in troubled homes.
(As someone who was adopted I can’t thank my parents enough for adopting them,WRT to being in “troubled homes..no they are not.)
Foster or adoptive parents you have been told your child was “unwanted”.
Not necessarily unwanted.I know vaguely my story and that my birth mother already had 2 kids and there were circumstances that led to her giving me up for adoption. As I said earlier there are many reasons that a baby is given up for adoption.
Then there is the comment “The baby should be given to family”.
(Can’t always happen and sometimes that is worse.)
Birth family is where kids belong.
(The stories I have followed where families who have had their kids taken away from them go on and on about how the evil gubmint took their kids away because they did something CPS thought was sus to them, And in one case the kids were given back to the parents and I said that we have not heard the last of them and sure enough they got their kids back.
The second case was so sketch and eventually the parents DID get their kid back but their story was all over the place.Since they got their kid back they have mostly kept their moth shut but if someone asks about about it it sets them off.
Break up happy and loving homes.
(In both of the cases that I mentioned their being happy and loving is debatable,)
Families traumatised and never want to go to a hospital again.
(Again in both of the cases that I mentioned the parents were anti-establishment, the first parents very much so to the point that they had their twins(which they did not even know that they were having because they did not go to the doctor the whole time they were pregnant ) at home without a doctor or a nurse present, Concerned neighbours and relatives reported them .In the comments sections on every article that was pro the family(like on Medical Kidnap as an example) they would call the concerned family members “traitors”.
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